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Awaits the Meet

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 Tomorrow holds a special promise – a chance to reunite with my school friends after a whole year. The excitement bubbles within me, knowing that our meeting came together with just a few calls. But beneath that excitement lies a hint of sadness, knowing that our college schedules will soon pull us apart again, making tomorrow's reunion even more precious. I find it hard to contain my excitement as I think about tomorrow. It feels like ages since I last saw them, and the thought of being able to catch up in person fills me with joy. We've been through so much together, and the bond we share is unbreakable, even with the distance between us. The simplicity of our plan – just a couple of calls – highlights the strength of our friendship. Despite the busyness of our lives, we always find a way to make time for each other. It's a testament to the special connection we share, one that transcends time and distance. pinterest.com But as much as I look forward to tomorrow, there...

A Regret That is No More

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 This year, my family built our very own house. It was an exciting milestone for us, a dream come true. However, I was away at college and couldn't be part of its development. Although I managed to visit home a few times during the construction, my visits were brief, lasting only about five days each. During those visits, I mostly focused on rest. I felt regretful and guilty. This was a big moment, and I missed it. My mom and siblings were there, making decisions and witnessing the progress, while I could only hear about it through phone calls. But I was a little happy for I atleast attended the house warming ceremony. Finally, my semester break arrived, and I am home for a few weeks. I was thrilled to see the new house as it had some changes from the house I saw during my last visit, but also, I felt strangely detached. It was beautiful, with its fresh paint and new furniture, but it didn’t feel like my home. I hadn’t seen it grow from a plot of land into a house, and everything f...

Paradox of Choice

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Since years, I've been grappling with the paradox of choice. The endless options available to us can be both a blessing and a curse. While it feels empowering to have so many opportunities, it often leaves me feeling overwhelmed and anxious. When I first started college, I was excited about the freedom to choose my own path. Now, in my second year, the reality of making these choices has set in. Deciding on a major, picking classes, choosing extracurricular activities, and planning for future internships—all these decisions carry weight. The pressure to make the "right" choice is immense, and it makes me wonder: does having more options actually improve our lives? Having many options should theoretically lead to better outcomes. However, I've found that the abundance of choices often leads to higher expectations. When faced with numerous possibilities, I start to believe that one of them must be perfect. This makes the decision-making process daunting because I don...

Homework Works

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 As a college student, I no longer have traditional homework assignments like I did in high school. This shift has given me a lot of perspective on the impact homework had on my life during my earlier school years. Looking back, I see both the positive and negative sides of homework and how it shaped my academic journey. On the one hand, homework was a valuable tool for reinforcing what I learned in class. When I had to practice problems or complete assignments at home, it helped solidify my understanding of the material. For example, working through math exercises at home allowed me to apply the formulas and methods taught by my teachers. This extra practice made me more confident during exams and improved my overall performance. In this sense, homework taught me the importance of diligence and practice. Moreover, homework taught me essential skills like responsibility and time management. Balancing multiple assignments required me to prioritize tasks and manage my schedule effect...

Lil lives Wanted

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 The idea of nurturing small fishes in my room at the hostel has been lingering in my mind for a while now. It all started when I visited my aunt's place and saw her adorable tiny fishes swimming around happily in her aquarium. Their colorful scales and graceful movements captivated me, and I couldn't help but imagine having my own little underwater world to admire. Living in the hall, I often find myself longing for a connection to nature though it's surrounded by large trees. The concrete walls and busy surroundings can feel stifling at times. Having a small aquarium filled with colorful fishes would not only bring a touch of nature into my room but also provide a sense of tranquility amidst the chaos of hostel life. The thought of caring for my own fishes is both exciting and daunting. I know it would require time, effort, and dedication to create a suitable environment for them to thrive. I've been doing some research about fishkeeping, learning about the different ...

Sis Rants!

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This evening, my sister was on a rampage about the book "If We Were Villains" by M.L. Rio. She had read three-fourths of it in just a day, and her excitement quickly turned into a passionate rant. I’ve never seen her worked up over books before so this was new to me. She couldn’t stop talking about how James, her favorite character, ended up being the murderer of Richard. The betrayal she felt was palpable, and she kept going on about how it was so unfair, especially because Oliver took the blame and went to jail instead. iconscout.com It was fascinating to watch her get so emotionally invested in the characters. She was genuinely upset, not just mildly annoyed, and it made me realize how powerful a story can be when it deeply resonates with someone. Her disappointment in James was intense. She had clearly connected with him on a level that made his actions feel like a personal betrayal. Her ranting made me see how much she valued character integrity and how much it hurt her ...

My Her!

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 My best friend and I couldn’t be more different. I’m a bit eccentric, always chatting with people, and she’s quite introverted, preferring quieter moments. Yet, despite these differences, we share a strong bond built on patience and understanding. Every day at college, our walks to the canteen or home are often interrupted by my frequent stops to talk with friends or acquaintances. I love these spontaneous chats, but they do slow us down. My best friend, however, never complains. She waits patiently, standing quietly by my side as I engage in these conversations. Her patience is truly remarkable and one of the many things I admire about her. Whenever I try to introduce her to someone new, she often feels shy. I’ll enthusiastically present her to a friend, but she’ll usually just offer a soft smile or a small nod in return. I’ve learned not to push her too hard and to respect her comfort zone. It’s not always easy because I want her to feel included, but I understand that socializi...

Her Obsession

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 My sister has developed an almost  obsessive love for books over the past few years, a passion that my mom and I find both baffling and exasperating. This obsession isn't just a casual interest or a hobby; it has become an all-consuming affair. Her room, once a modest space, has now transformed into a miniature library, bursting at the seams with novels, memoirs, and classic literature. Today, she came home with another haul, proudly displaying her new acquisitions: "Icebreaker," "Twisted Series," "Crime and Punishment" and several more, each book brandished with the kind of enthusiasm most people reserve for prized possessions. This love for books didn't appear overnight. Initially, it was charming to see her immersed in a novel, and it was even a bit endearing when she began quoting lines from her favorite characters. But as the years have passed, her spending on books has escalated dramatically. Any savings she manages to accumulate quickly dis...

First Cooking!

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 Today was an unforgettable day. It was the first time I ever tried to cook, and I was not alone in this adventure. My younger sister and cousin brother joined me in the kitchen, turning the experience into a delightful family affair. None of us had much experience in cooking, so we knew it was going to be a challenge. However, the excitement of trying something new together made it all worthwhile.We decided to make something simple but tasty: mushroom gravy with dosa. My sister was in charge of "supervising" us, my cousin handled making the dosa batter, and I took on the responsibility of cooking the gravy. The kitchen soon turned into a bustling hub of activity, with laughter and chatter filling the air. www.mccormick.com As we worked, there were a few funny mishaps. I almost cried while cutting the onions. My cousin accidentally spilled some of the batter on the floor, causing a mini-panic. Despite these minor setbacks, we managed to keep our spirits high. We joked and tea...

I Feel Gray Today

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 As evening falls today, I find myself cloaked in a peculiar moodiness, an unshakable weight pressing down on my spirit. This sensation isn't entirely foreign; it arrives with the setting sun, almost predictably, turning the once vibrant hues of my day into muted shades of gray. This evening, however, the moodiness is particularly intense, compounded by a series of relentless headaches that seem to pulsate in rhythm with my thoughts. The familiar walls of my home, usually a sanctuary, feel stifling. There's nowhere to escape, no outing or distraction to break the monotony. The headache is an insistent drumbeat in my temples, making it difficult to concentrate on anything. Each throb underscores my desire for calm and silence, yet the tranquility I crave remains elusive. Every attempt to retreat into myself is thwarted by the noise—external and internal—that fills the space around me. wallpaper.mob.org It's not just the physical discomfort that burdens me; it's the emoti...

Another Dilemma!

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 Hey all! So this is about a dilemma! Choosing a phone isn't easy, especially when you're trying to balance what you want with what your mom can afford. It's like walking a tightrope between my wish list and her budget. And to make things even trickier, everyone seems to have an opinion on what I should get! There are so many phones out there, each with its own cool features and fancy designs. It's like being a kid in a candy store, except I have to keep an eye on the price tag. I want a phone with a great camera for all those Instagram-worthy moments, but I also need it to last through the day without constantly begging for a charge. www.phonearena.com But then come the relatives, Sreeman bro swears that the motherboard of a particular brand will be gone with an update , while uncle Deepan insists another is the way to go. It's like a never-ending loop of conflicting advice, and it's hard to know who to trust. And don't even get me started on all the differ...

My Love in Letters and Words

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 Reading - my favorite of all. It brings me joy and takes me on exciting adventures without leaving the comfort of my home. Whenever I have free time, you can find me curled up with a good book. Books are like magic portals that transport me to different worlds and times. Whether it's a fantasy realm with dragons and wizards or a historical setting filled with knights and kings, I love getting lost in the pages of a captivating story. There's something soothing about getting lost in a story and forgetting about my worries for a while. It's like taking a mini-vacation without ever leaving my home. One of the things I enjoy most about reading is the opportunity to learn new things. Non-fiction books teach me about the world around me, from science and history to art and culture. Every book I read expands my knowledge and broadens my perspective. www.uopeople.edu I also love the feeling of accomplishment that comes with finishing a book. There's a sense of satisfaction in ...

Balance is Important!

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 Life feels like a delicate dance, a constant juggling act between various aspects of my existence. Finding the right balance is key to my well-being, happiness, and overall fulfillment. As I navigate the complexities of modern life, mastering the art of finding balance becomes increasingly important to me. At the core of my quest for balance lies the recognition that my time and energy are finite resources. I must allocate them wisely to the different areas of my life, such as study, family, relationships, health, hobbies, and personal growth. Neglecting one area in favor of another can lead to imbalance and dissatisfaction, so I ought to strive to distribute my resources thoughtfully. Setting priorities and boundaries is essential in my journey to balance. I have to identify what matters most to me and allocate my time and resources accordingly. This sometimes means saying no to certain commitments or activities that do not align with my priorities, allowing me to focus on what t...

The Lost Belief

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I've observed a noticeable decline in spiritual beliefs among my peers. Growing up in a digital age where technology reigns supreme, it seems like we're drifting away from matters of the spirit. The once deeply ingrained essence of spirituality is fading, and it's a concerning trend worth exploring. Firstly, technology plays a massive role in this shift. With smartphones constantly in hand and social media dominating our interactions, our attention is constantly diverted. Instead of seeking solace in nature or meditation, we're caught up in endless scrolling and seeking validation online. This constant stimulation leaves little room for introspection or connection with something beyond ourselves. Additionally, the rise of science and rationality has led many to question traditional spiritual beliefs. As access to information increases, skepticism grows. We're taught to question everything, including the existence of a higher power. Scientific explanations often seem...

The Evening Bliss

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As the sun dipped low in the sky, casting a warm golden glow over the streets of Salem, I found myself drawn to the lively energy of the town once more forgetting my mom, who was with me. The bustling streets had transformed, bathed in the soft light of dusk, giving everything a magical aura. With a skip in my step, I made my way through the familiar streets, the hustle and bustle of the day giving way to a more relaxed atmosphere. The shops and cafes that lined the cobblestone sidewalks seemed to come alive with the gentle hum of conversation and laughter. As I strolled along with my mom, I couldn't help but be captivated by the enchanting sights and sounds of the evening. The air was alive with the aroma of delicious food wafting from nearby restaurants, mingling with the sweet scent of blooming flowers that adorned the storefronts. www.skyscrapercity.com Suddenly, we caught sight of my aunt across the street, her face illuminated by the soft glow of streetlights. With a smile, I...

Today's Frustration

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There is something that keeps running in my mind which I find to be irritable and so would like to share it with you all. Let me know your thoughts after reading this because.... it's frustrating to me! ru.freepik.com  Upon my mother's return from the hospital this afternoon, I was asking my brother to clean the living room. Upon hearing this, she said that from today, my brother should neither clean the house nor wash the dishes. My sister and I questioned her reasoning because when we have been doing this for years why can't he do the same. She replied that her father called and asked her not to let my brother do house chores, stating that it would affect him psychologically. Finding this absurd, we called our grandpa. The phone was answered by my grandma, who said that doing house chores would affect my brother's ego, and she hung up, saying grandpa was busy with work and would call us later. Nearly an hour and a half passed, and my phone rang. It was my grandpa. I a...

Blessing Returned!

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As a college student, returning home after months of exams feels like a warm embrace from a long-lost friend. The relief of leaving behind the stress of lectures, assignments, and exams is palpable. But amidst the excitement of reuniting with family and friends, there's one thing I eagerly anticipate more than anything else: the simple pleasure of home-cooked food - the blessing of my mom. After enduring cafeteria meals and instant noodles for what seems like an eternity, the thought of savoring a homemade meal fills me with unparalleled joy. The aroma of spices wafting through the air as I step into the kitchen instantly transports me to a place of comfort and contentment. It's a reminder of the love and care that goes into every dish, a stark contrast to the hurriedly prepared meals of college life. As I sit down at the dining table, surrounded by familiar faces and the sound of laughter, I can't help but feel a sense of gratitude wash over me. There's something incre...

A Sign to swim

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 As I slip into the cool embrace of the water, a sense of tranquility washes over me. The rhythmic sound of my breath syncs with the gentle swaying of my body as I begin to glide through the crystal-clear depths. With each stroke, I feel a surge of energy coursing through my muscles, propelling me forward with effortless grace. The sensation of weightlessness envelops me, freeing me from the constraints of gravity as I explore the boundless expanse of the pool. With each lap, I lose myself in the rhythm of the water, my mind attuned to the soothing melody of my surroundings. www.realtyexecutives.com As I turn my head to take a breath, I am greeted by the sight of sunlight dancing upon the surface, casting shimmering ripples across the azure blue. For a moment, time stands still as I bask in the beauty of the underwater world, lost in a state of serene bliss. With each stroke, I push myself further, testing the limits of my endurance as I strive to reach new depths of strength and s...

Home Sweet Home

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 After completing the second semester exams, the thought of returning home fills me with an overwhelming sense of excitement and anticipation. The prospect of spending nearly half and one month at home is like a beacon of warmth guiding me through the final days of the semester. www.kaartje2go.nl As I packed my bags, my mind buzzed with images of home: the familiar scent of my room, the comforting embrace of my family, and the hearty meals prepared by my mother. Each thought filled me with a sense of longing, urged me to hasten my steps towards the impending reunion. The journey home is filled with a mix of emotions - eagerness to return and a hint of nostalgia for the life I temporarily leave behind. However, as the distance between me and home diminishes, excitement takes precedence, overshadowing any lingering doubts or fears. Upon arrival, I am greeted with open arms and beaming smiles, reaffirming the warmth and love that define home. The familiar sights and sounds envelop me ...

Atleast once!

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As I sit at my desk, gazing out the window at the waning light of day, my mind drifts to a distant dream—a wish yet to be fulfilled. It's a simple desire, really—to watch the moon from the summit of a hill after a long trek. But despite the allure of the idea, the reality of my circumstances holds me back. www.shutterstock.com Time slips through my fingers like sand, each day blending into the next in a blur of obligations and responsibilities. Between studies and commitments, finding a moment to indulge in my passion for trekking feels like an impossible feat. The weekends are consumed by assignments and rest, leaving little room for adventure. And then there's the matter of my family, whose strict beliefs and traditions dictate my every move. The idea of embarking on a solitary trek under the cloak of night would surely be met with disapproval, if not outright resistance. Their concerns for my safety and well-being outweigh any fleeting desires I may harbor. But still, the dr...

The Mess and Me

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 Cleaning my room has never been my forte. Back home, I always relied on my family to help me tidy up the mess. But now, as a college student living in the hall, I found myself facing the daunting task of cleaning my room all by myself for the first time. It's not that I don't clean them, it's that I should vacate the current room. So I should clean it entirely not leaving a thing behind.  As I stood in the doorway, surveying the chaos that awaited me, I couldn't help but feel overwhelmed. Clothes were strewn across the floor, textbooks piled haphazardly on the desk, and dust had settled on every surface. It was clear that my room had become a breeding ground for disorder during these last few weeks. Taking a deep breath, I rolled up my sleeves and began the arduous task of sorting through the mess. I started by gathering up the dirty laundry and tossing it into the hamper. stock.adobe.com As I worked, I couldn't help but marvel at the amount of stuff I had accumula...

The Endless Train

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 Sometimes my mind takes me on unexpected journeys. It's like stepping onto a train with no destination in mind, letting the tracks guide me wherever they may lead. I call it getting lost in the thought train.When I'm lost in the thought train, it's like entering a world of endless possibilities. Ideas float around me like colorful balloons, each one begging to be explored. One thought leads to another, and before I know it, I'm off on a mental adventure, exploring new territories of thought. thomaswhigtman.co.uk It's a bit like daydreaming, but with a purpose. Instead of drifting aimlessly, my mind is actively engaged, making connections and uncovering hidden truths. Sometimes I stumble upon insights that surprise even me, like stumbling upon a hidden treasure buried deep within the recesses of my mind. But getting lost in it isn't always smooth sailing. Sometimes the tracks veer off in unexpected directions, and I find myself in unfamiliar territory. Thoughts ...

The Vacation Dilemma

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 As I approach my first semester break, I'm faced with a dilemma that I hadn't anticipated: choosing vacation classes. It's a decision that feels more overwhelming than I ever imagined, and I find myself struggling to navigate the options and make the right choice. To begin with, there's the sheer variety of classes available. From art workshops to cooking courses to language lessons, the options seem endless. Each class promises to teach me something new and exciting, but how do I choose just one? It's like being a kid in a candy store, except instead of sweets, it's knowledge and skills that I'm trying to pick from. www.istockphoto.com Then there's the pressure to make the most of my time off. The semester break is a rare opportunity to pursue my interests and passions outside of my regular studies. But with so many classes to choose from, I worry that I'll end up spreading myself too thin or missing out on something truly special. How can I be sur...

Still a Part: Shaping Me

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 As a child, my hobbies were my sanctuary, offering me a world of imagination, exploration, and creativity. Little did I know then, those childhood passions would shape the person I am today and continue to influence my adult life in unexpected ways. After all it's still a part of me.... copyright: www.nytimes.com One of my earliest hobbies was reading. I was captivated by stories of adventure, fantasy, morality, and mystery, eagerly devouring books. This love for reading sparked my curiosity and nurtured my imagination, laying the foundation for a lifelong pursuit of knowledge and understanding.  As an adult, I still find solace in the pages of a good book, and the lessons I learned from literature continue to shape my perspectives and inspire me to explore new ideas and concepts. In addition to reading, sports also played a part in my childhood hobbies, albeit less consistently. I would often find myself drawn to different sports, from Roller Skating to Soft Tennis and from ...

A deserving treat?

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 As the sun rose on the morning of my allied exam of End of Semester exams, my friend and I gathered our notes and settled in for a last-minute review session. With the exam scheduled for the afternoon, we wanted to make sure we were as prepared as possible. When the time finally came to head to the exam hall, we felt a mixture of anticipation and apprehension. Would all our hard work pay off? Could we tackle whatever the paper threw our way? As we sat down with our pens poised, I couldn't help but feel a surge of determination. We had come this far, and we were ready to give it our all. As I flipped through the pages of the exam paper, I felt a wave of relief wash over me. The questions seemed manageable, and I found myself drawing on the knowledge we had revised earlier that morning. Sure, there were a few tricky ones here and there, but overall, it was the kind of paper we had hoped for—not too easy, but definitely not impossible. With each question answered, I felt a sense of s...

Snooze wisdom

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 Sleep is really important for me. When I prioritize rest, I find myself rejuvenated and prepared to confront the challenges of each day. It serves as a vital mechanism for replenishing my energy reserves and optimizing my cognitive faculties. Conversely, when sleep is lacking, I grapple with fatigue and irritability, which impair my ability to concentrate and perform tasks effectively. Furthermore, insufficient rest often manifests physically, leading to headaches and diminished immune function, making me more susceptible to illness. Recognizing that sleep is not merely a period of physical inactivity, but a crucial stage of cognitive processing, I value its role in consolidating memories and regulating emotions. A good night's sleep allows my brain to meticulously organize and integrate the myriad experiences and information acquired throughout the day, facilitating mental clarity and emotional resilience. Moreover, I have observed a direct correlation between sleep and mood. Wel...